Let's Talk About Your List - Notes from the Matchmaker, Podcast Episode Three

You have one. We all do. The list of exactly what we are looking for in a partner. The height. The age range. They way they look. The specific energy they need to bring into a room. The things we absolutely will not compromise on.

I am not here to judge your list. I have had one myself. And in this episode of my podcast Notes from the Matchmaker, I want to tell you what I actually see when you hand it to me.

Because here is the thing. Your list is not really about what you need in a partner. It is about what you think will keep you safe. Every item on it traces back to someone who hurt you. And you may not even know you are still carrying that.

My job as a matchmaker is not to deliver your list in the package of a perfect person. My job is to understand what is underneath it and why it is there.

A list that keeps you safe is not the same as a list that finds you someone you can be happy with.

🎙️ Listen to Notes from the Matchmaker Episode Three - Let's Talk About Your List - available now on Spotify, Apple and where ever you get your Podcasts.