Code of Conduct

CODE OF CONDUCT FOR WAYWARD HEARTS DATING EVENTS AND MATCHMAKING

1. Introduction

Required Reading & Agreement

When I facilitate an introduction between two people, I'm putting my professional reputation on the line. I'm also entrusting each person with someone else's time, energy, and emotional wellbeing.

This Code of Conduct outlines the basic expectations for how you conduct yourself when meeting someone I've introduced you to. By signing below, you agree to uphold these standards.

2. Scope and Applicability

For your protection and privacy:

• I do not share your contact information or photos with the other person before the first meeting

• I facilitate and coordinate the first date (location, time, etc.)

• You meet in person without having exchanged contact info beforehand

• After the first meeting, if there's mutual interest, you can exchange contact information directly or I can facilitate that exchange

• If one or both people aren't interested in continuing, no contact information is ever shared

• This protects both parties from unwanted contact and allows you to meet without preconceived judgments based on photos.

3. Expected Behavior at Dating Events

Before The Date

✅ Confirm attendance with me at least 24 hours in advance. If something comes up and you need to cancel, contact me immediately so I can inform the other person.

✅ Show up on time. If you're running late, text me and I'll relay the message.

✅ Come as you presented yourself. The other person hasn't seen photos of you, so there's no pressure to match an image - but don't misrepresent your appearance,
age, or situation in your profile.

Personal Presentation

✅ Be clean and well-groomed. Basic hygiene is non-negotiable.

✅ Dress appropriately for the venue and activity. Put in effort that shows you respect the other person's time.

✅ Be sober. One drink during the date is fine. Showing up intoxicated or under the influence is unacceptable.

During The Date

✅ Be present. Put your phone away unless there's an emergency. Give the other person your full attention.

✅ Be respectful at all times. This means:

• Listening when they speak

• Not interrupting or talking over them

• Asking questions and showing genuine interest

• Being polite to servers, staff, and others around you

• No rude, dismissive, or condescending behavior

✅ Be honest. Don't lie about your life, your intentions, or your situation.

✅ Respect boundaries. Physical, emotional, conversational. If someone says no or seems uncomfortable, back off immediately.

✅ No games. Don't "test" the other person. Don't set them up to fail. Don't create drama or intentionally provoke negative reactions.

✅ Handle the bill gracefully. Discuss payment beforehand or offer to split. Don't create awkwardness or put the other person in an uncomfortable position.

IF THE DATE ISN'T GOING WELL

You're not obligated to continue a date that feels wrong. But you ARE obligated to handle it with respect.

✅ Be honest and kind. You can say something like:

• "I'm really glad we met, but I'm not feeling any connection. I hope you understand."

• "I don't think we're quite the right match, but I appreciate you taking the time to meet me."

✅ End it respectfully. Don't just disappear to the bathroom and leave. Don't make up elaborate excuses. Be direct, polite, and then leave.

✅ Don't ghost. If you're not interested in a second date, say so clearly. You don't owe an explanation, but you do owe clarity to both the person you have just met and the Matchmaker.

After The Date

✅ Follow up with me within 48 hours. Let me know how it went and whether you're interested in seeing them again.

✅ If you're both interested, I'll facilitate exchanging contact information (or you can do so directly if you already did at the end of the date).

✅ If you're not interested, tell me clearly so I can let the other person know respectfully. I also need to update your profile based on your feedback so a better match can be made next time.

✅ If they're not interested, accept it gracefully. No contacting them through other means, no trying to find them on social media, no pushing.

4. Absolutely Unacceptable Behavior

The following will result in immediate removal from Wayward Hearts with no refund:

❌ Any form of harassment, verbal abuse, or disrespectful treatment

❌ Inappropriate physical contact without clear consent

❌ Lying about fundamental aspects of your life or situation

❌ Ghosting without explanation

❌ Setting someone up to fail or intentionally creating negative situations

❌ Sharing private details about the other person without their consent

❌ Pressuring someone for physical intimacy

❌ Being intoxicated or under the influence

❌ Any behavior that makes the other person feel unsafe or uncomfortable

❌ Purposefully not being honest or withholding information from the Matchmaker

5. Your Responsibility

When you agree to meet someone, I've introduced you to, you're representing yourself AND Wayward Hearts. Your behavior reflects on both of us.

I carefully vet and match people based on compatibility, values, and readiness. But I can only do so much. Once you're on a date, how you treat the other person is entirely up to you.

Treat people the way you'd want to be treated. It's that simple.

6. If Something Goes Wrong

If the other person violates this Code of Conduct, or if you feel unsafe or disrespected during the date:

1. Remove yourself from the situation if you feel unsafe

2. Contact me immediately at (902) 916-2031

3. Provide details so I can address the issue and prevent it from happening to someone else

I take violations of this Code seriously. Anyone who behaves disrespectfully will be removed from Wayward Hearts.

7. Agreement

By signing below, I acknowledge that I have read, understood, and agree to uphold the Wayward Hearts Code of Conduct for all introductions and dates facilitated by Wayward Hearts Matchmaking.

I understand that violating this Code may result in removal from Wayward Hearts with no refund, and that my behavior reflects not only on myself but on Wayward Hearts and the matchmaking process.

I agree to treat all introductions with respect, honesty, and good faith.