It Takes Courage to Show Up - But I've Got You

Let's be honest: walking into a room full of strangers is terrifying.

I know this because even I feel it. I also have heard directly from you that it happens to you about attending a Wayward Hearts event. I know because people tell me, whether through nervous texts, phone calls, last-minute questions, or especially when I hear the relief in their voice when I promise I'll be there to greet them by name.

And I get it. Showing up to meet new people, especially when you're hoping for genuine connection, makes you vulnerable. You're putting yourself out there. You're admitting you want something - friendship, romance, community - and that admission alone takes guts.

Here's what I want you to know: It's okay to be nervous.

In fact, it's completely normal. Everyone who walks through the door at a Wayward Hearts event is feeling some version of the same thing. Will I fit in? What if it's awkward? What if no one talks to me? What if I'm the only one coming alone?

Spoiler: You're not. Everyone's coming alone. That's the whole point!

But here's the thing about courage - it's not about not being scared. It's about doing it anyway.

And when you do? When you push past the nerves and show up? That's when the magic happens. That's when you realize the room is full of kind, curious, wonderfully weird people who are just like you - looking for real connection in a world that makes it way too hard to find.

I'm not just hosting these events. I'm your wingwoman.

From the moment you RSVP, I'm here. Have questions? Text me. Nervous about what to expect? I'll tell you exactly what'll happen. Worried about walking in alone? I'll be right there at the door to welcome you by name and introduce you to others.

I facilitate conversations so you don't have to worry about awkward silences. I keep the group small so it feels intimate, not overwhelming. I create structure so there's always something to talk about. And I pay attention - if I see someone looking uncertain, I jump in.

You don't have to do this alone. That's literally why I'm here.

I started Wayward Hearts because I believe connection shouldn't be this hard. And while I can't eliminate the nerves, which is just part of being human, I can make showing up as comfortable and welcoming as possible.

So if you're on the fence about coming to an event - here's my promise:

• I will greet you personally

• I will make sure you feel included

• I will facilitate conversations that actually go somewhere

• I will create an environment where being yourself is not just okay, it's celebrated

All you have to do is show up. I'll handle the rest.

Because here's what I've learned: The people who push past the fear and walk through that door? They're always glad they did. Not because every event leads to instant friendship or romance although sometimes it does, but because they proved to themselves that they're brave enough to try.

And that courage? That's the first step to finding your people.

So take a breath. Purchase that ticket. Text me if you're nervous.

And then show up.

I promise - I've got you every step of the way.

I hope to see you in person at Saturday’s mixer.