Do you know why you aren’t meeting the right people to date?

Notes from the Matchmaker #4

Listen, almost all of us have been there. As adults, dating tends to be hard for lots of people. The meet cute stories about falling in love in school certainly don’t help. They don't make singles in their thirties, forties, and fifties feel better.  

Maybe, you feel like you really just suck at love. You either can’t meet anyone who interests you. Or you keep choosing the wrong person repeatedly. They feel oh so wrong for you, but oh so good at the time.

Here is the thing. Maybe you just need some help figuring out what qualities you need in a partner. Finding out these qualities can lead to a long-lasting fulfilling relationship. Until you know this, you are going to keep making dating choices that leave you feeling unhappy or unloved. Do you know why you make the dating choices you do?

Finding love and keeping it feels way more complicated now than it did for our parents or grandparents. The world is constantly changing. Where and how we live, work and meet people is constantly evolving.  Social media and reality tv, which are in fact not real, profoundly impact how we see ourselves and others. We quickly compare ourselves and our stories to disinformation. This disinformation is carefully constructed by influencers about how easy life, relationships, and love are for them.

No matter what age you are, navigating today’s dating world is challenging. You practically have to be a relationship expert to have a successful first or second date. If your end goal is marriage or a long term commitment you aren't even sure that is possible.

There is an easier way to do this. You can trust a matchmaker to help you discover who your perfect someone is. Once we know who they are we can then plan that perfect first date with you.

Your journey to love doesn’t have to be painful, bordering on a disaster or perfectly blah! The process can be a joyful discovery of who you are. It will also uncover who you need to be in a relationship with. We will find you that perfect someone to spend Sunday mornings with. With a $90 three-month Wayward Hearts membership we can start planning that first date.